Unfair

Hi,


I grew up in an unfair life. I don’t know if it’s just me who feels the unfairness or if I’m just too sensitive.


When I was a child, I didn’t understand why my father brought my sister to buy something for me when I was the one who asked for it. If I wanted it, shouldn’t I be the one to go and buy it myself?


I didn’t understand why my sister didn’t get scolded by my mother, but I did. I didn’t understand why my little brother got praised for getting a minimum result, but I got nothing even though I was an academic achiever.


I didn’t understand why my teacher always sent the same student to competitions. I didn’t understand why that student got to participate in a storytelling competition when I had a better voice. I didn’t understand why my teacher didn’t acknowledge my achievement when I participated at an international level camping event in my PAJSK.


Why did I get scolded for not coming out of my room when my sister did the same? The only difference between us was that she did the chores in the morning, while I did them at night when everyone was asleep because I didn’t like interacting with people.


I didn’t understand why my mother scolded me for not speaking to my bedridden father—who never replied to me—when my sister did the same.


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